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Post by TJ on Jul 25, 2007 16:06:43 GMT -5
Dude take a few days and then reasess the situation. It's just an argument and you guys will work it out. Don't let it get you down too bad bro. These guys were just talking smack man. No one was putting you down and nobody wanted this to happen for you. Just take some time and figure out if this whole relationship is something that you want. Those morals she has aren't going to change. YOu just have to figure out if you can deal and live with them. If you need anything man shoot me a pm!
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Post by Dirrty Craig on Jul 25, 2007 16:07:39 GMT -5
HOLY SH!T! Are you serious.. thats crazy dude. Wow.. Don't worry you'll get through it, but honestly it sounds like it may have been for the better in the long run even if you loved her.
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Post by Dirrty Craig on Jul 25, 2007 16:08:41 GMT -5
Dude take a few days and then reasess the situation. It's just an argument and you guys will work it out. Don't let it get you down too bad bro. These guys were just talking smack man. No one was putting you down and nobody wanted this to happen for you. Just take some time and figure out if this whole relationship is something that you want. Those morals she has aren't going to change. YOu just have to figure out if you can deal and live with them. If you need anything man shoot me a pm! Oh great, yeah Don, ask the guy on the board who bangs 10 sluts a month for advice...
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Post by motorcop71 on Jul 25, 2007 16:09:15 GMT -5
DD, let me say that I am sorry to hear that , and I am relieved that it wasn't because of my crazy ramblings. Again, I hope you know I was bustin' your stones. I obviously don't know you or her and I am not going to bore you with "your better off" and all that because I don't know enough to say one way or another. One thing I can tell you is that as much as things suck now, they will get better. Sooner or later, we all end up exactly where we are supposed to be. If it's not with her, it will be with someone else. Stay strong bro.
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Post by TJ on Jul 25, 2007 16:11:22 GMT -5
Dude take a few days and then reasess the situation. It's just an argument and you guys will work it out. Don't let it get you down too bad bro. These guys were just talking smack man. No one was putting you down and nobody wanted this to happen for you. Just take some time and figure out if this whole relationship is something that you want. Those morals she has aren't going to change. YOu just have to figure out if you can deal and live with them. If you need anything man shoot me a pm! Oh great, yeah Don, ask the guy on the board who bangs 10 sluts a month for advice... LOL!!! You'd be surprised at how wise of a man I am. Well then again you'd be amazed at pretty much anything being a Cro-magnon man that lives in a cave!
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Post by shreder75 on Jul 25, 2007 16:17:26 GMT -5
Well naimliles guessed it, we split. She moved her sh!t out yesterday. I didn't let her read this monstrocity so that wasn't the case. I have held up pretty well through most of these comments but shreder is right, no one here knows me and the type of person I am. I may be less shallow and barbaric as Motorcop but I am anything but a neutered sensative man, BELIEVE me. We had a falling out about her issues and she decided she couldn't let go of her "morals" which translate to her fears and insecurities to me. So we ended it yesterday. I haven't been on here because she took the computer and I have been working in the field for the week so I probably won't be on here too much seeing that I am fcking broke and probably can't even afford rent w/o her helping me let alone a damn computer. I can't say that this is for the better because I did love her and we had been together for almost 3 years. I was saving for a ring but I guess that's done. I don't know, my mind is at war at the momoent and I can't think clearly. I'm taking a break from here until I figure out what I'm doing with myself. fck me freddy..damn, dude..that sucks!! but from the sounds of it, this thread (which she didn't read anyway) nor the idea of you going to the convention had anything to do with it, right? sounds like there was some other sh!t goin' on in the background we don't know about...anyway, sorry buddy~
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Post by shreder75 on Jul 25, 2007 16:18:35 GMT -5
Dude take a few days and then reasess the situation. It's just an argument and you guys will work it out. Don't let it get you down too bad bro. These guys were just talking smack man. No one was putting you down and nobody wanted this to happen for you. Just take some time and figure out if this whole relationship is something that you want. Those morals she has aren't going to change. YOu just have to figure out if you can deal and live with them. If you need anything man shoot me a pm! Oh great, yeah Don, ask the guy on the board who bangs 10 sluts a month for advice... not to mention he plays a tele!
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Post by motorcop71 on Jul 25, 2007 18:19:58 GMT -5
"Bye bye Donny bye bye, she said in her letter, and that was all she wrote..."
Oh wait...this isn't the Firehouse thread. Sorry.....
That is soooo bad!!!! Sometimes I hate myself!!! ;D
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Post by MetalHeart on Jul 25, 2007 18:28:52 GMT -5
Well naimliles guessed it, we split. She moved her sh!t out yesterday. I didn't let her read this monstrocity so that wasn't the case. I have held up pretty well through most of these comments but shreder is right, no one here knows me and the type of person I am. I may be less shallow and barbaric as Motorcop but I am anything but a neutered sensative man, BELIEVE me. We had a falling out about her issues and she decided she couldn't let go of her "morals" which translate to her fears and insecurities to me. So we ended it yesterday. I haven't been on here because she took the computer and I have been working in the field for the week so I probably won't be on here too much seeing that I am fcking broke and probably can't even afford rent w/o her helping me let alone a damn computer. I can't say that this is for the better because I did love her and we had been together for almost 3 years. I was saving for a ring but I guess that's done. I don't know, my mind is at war at the momoent and I can't think clearly. I'm taking a break from here until I figure out what I'm doing with myself. Man don't be a fool! If you realy love this girl,go get her back. "Morals" what? So you going to let that stand in you way of being happy? The way she was raised is what makes her who she is! same for you even if you don't won't to admit it.. You can't change people and people can't change you. Life is to short dude,if she's the one go get her. Good luck in whatever you do
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Post by naimiles on Jul 25, 2007 20:01:16 GMT -5
Donald...If you want her back, call her and apologize. What worries me more is the rent thing. That sh%t can eat at you on all sides.
I live with x-wife #2, live pay-check-to-pay-check and give all that I got to x-wife #1 and my boys. It's my 18 year old son that plays guitar and I got him his QR and we put together a Warmoth. So hang in there, say your sorry and get your old life back. If that doesn't work there's always TJ's brother.
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Post by shreder75 on Jul 25, 2007 23:00:55 GMT -5
"Bye bye Donny bye bye, she said in her letter, and that was all she wrote..." Oh wait...this isn't the Firehouse thread. Sorry..... That is soooo bad!!!! Sometimes I hate myself!!! ;D that was a little much, dude
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Post by motorcop71 on Jul 26, 2007 8:11:46 GMT -5
Yeah, thats just that dark cop humor. Thats really just how we try to make the best out of a bad situation. At a wreck when there is blood and guts all over, you should hear some of the stuff that's said. That's how we deal with things. If you don't, there can be real problems. It probably seems to some like a cruel, cold-hearted thing, kickin' him when he's down, huh? If you expect more than that from me, I will always disappoint you. If your going to love me shreder, you need to know that. Feel free to PM me a list of what is acceptable and what isn't. Really though, haven't we all been in a relationship that ended either by us being dumped or us being the one doing the dumping? Either way, it sucks. But I have always found laughter to be the best medicine. The young lad will be just fine. You know how it is. It seems like the world is crashing down right now. Later on you realize it was just a bump in the road. But if your the one actually involved, it sure doesn't seem like it at the time. I actually would be surpised if they don't end up back together. What will be will be, I guess. Shred, I think it's great you came to the defense of your buddy. I can tell you are a good friend and I believe you would likely make a fine sorority sister. ;D Mangina? Table for three....Mangina?
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Post by shreder75 on Jul 26, 2007 8:19:57 GMT -5
Yeah, thats just that dark cop humor. Thats really just how we try to make the best out of a bad situation. At a wreck when there is blood and guts all over, you should hear some of the stuff that's said. That's how we deal with things. If you don't, there can be real problems. It probably seems to some like a cruel, cold-hearted thing, kickin' him when he's down, huh? If you expect more than that from me, I will always disappoint you. If your going to love me shreder, you need to know that. Feel free to PM me a list of what is acceptable and what isn't. Really though, haven't we all been in a relationship that ended either by us being dumped or us being the one doing the dumping? Either way, it sucks. But I have always found laughter to be the best medicine. The young lad will be just fine. You know how it is. It seems like the world is crashing down right now. Later on you realize it was just a bump in the road. But if your the one actually involved, it sure doesn't seem like it at the time. I actually would be surpised if they don't end up back together. What will be will be, I guess. Shred, I think it's great you came to the defense of your buddy. I can tell you are a good friend and I believe you would likely make a fine sorority sister. ;D Mangina? Table for three....Mangina? yeah, I like to think I'm a decent enough friend.... humor's fine..and laughter is good medicine...when it doesn't go too far...
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Post by VomHalen on Jul 26, 2007 8:21:08 GMT -5
i knew this was going to end badly...DD if you see this PM me bro
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